Monday, November 15, 2010
Am I overreacting?
Okay so I try to encourage my boyfriend to be completely open with me about whatever he wants; I want him to let me know what he would like out of our relationship. I should call him my fiance since he has proposed to me with a ring and all but I'm not ready to tell my parents yet so we are waiting. We have been together about a year and yes I am in love with him. So we are very open about sex, and he has told me all of his fantasies; I want him to be able too. We don't hold anything back from each other which can cause a lot of arguments but its best we are both honest. So he has told me various sexual things he wants to try and some were shocking but I was fine with everything except one simple fantasy most men have! He told me one day he wanted to have a Three-some..its not uncommon at all for him to say that but it hurt me..I'm upset! Its stupid isn't it? It wasn't shocking, but to me I am just happy with him, I would never want someone else to be involved in something so intimate and it made me so upset..
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Been there, and my advice is-unless you're absolutely comfortable with it, do not go there. It will absolutely break you up. If you can get comfortable with it, that's great and it can be great. But if one person in the relationship is hesitant, you'll resent him for it forever and it will break your relationship down.
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, though, don't take it personally. It's just a fantasy, and he should know most fantasies don't come true. It doesn't mean he isn't absolutely crazy about you. It just means he's a guy :)
Also, don't blow up and show him how upset you are about it, or it will be hard for him to open up with you again.
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